you honestly shouldn’t be worried when I fight or argue with you. When I argue, or fight, it showcases how much I care for you. It demonstrates my willingness to lose sleep, to get headaches, to countlessly repeat myself, for you. It shows how much time I’d be willing to spend by talking about problematic situations, in hopes of coming to a reasonable conclusion and solution. So, don’t worry when I fight.

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Worry when I don’t care enough to fight. Worry about the fact that I’ve lost all energy to work things out with you. When I don’t fight, or argue with you, it just shows how much I don’t care. It shows how tired and how exhausting it is to be with you. Worry about how you mistreated me so much to the point where I’ve lost all interest. Silence is the loudest cry at times. When I say or do nothing, then worry. Because 9/10 times you’ve probably lost it all.